Beds are great. They're great to sleep, lounge, watch TV, have breakfast in and shake the crumbs out of, and a classic venue for getting it on. But bed sex, while great, can also get a little stale if it's the only sex venue you're frequenting. That's why it's helpful to venture out and take your sexing to a new location. While for some adventurous folks that means the great outdoors or a fancy hotel in a new city, all you really need to shake things up are some sex moves to try in a chair — and a steady chair to do them in.
What The Guy Does In The Sitting Position
Let us take the guesswork out of what sex position to try next!
Americans spend nearly three hours a day on the couch, according to the Bureau of Labor and Statistics. So if the couch is a big part of your life, you might want to start having sex on it. I mean, why not? Couch sex can be a hot place to mix it up in a relationship; it can be the setting for impromptu sex during downtime; or, it can be a convenient place to get it on while watching Mr. Smith or, you know, straight up porn—no shame in that. How to: Your partner sits cross-legged as you mount his lap, facing him with your legs wrapped around his back. Why it's great: This compact move is perfect for any couch, whether luxury sectional or an apartment-sized love seat no pun intended. This position is not only supremely intimate, but can allow your partner to reach both your clitoris and G-spot, while stroking other erogenous zones like face, upper body, and neck. How to: Lie on your right side as your partner kneels over your right leg, straddling it, and curl your left leg around his left side. Why it's great: This achieves the same penetration as doggy style, but adds a level of intimacy as you're facing each other.
If I were a singer-songwriter, I would write a ballad about the Time Bomb. But I'm a blogger and can't hold a tune so I'll stick to just writing about it. It's good. Like, really good. Like, get-all-sweaty, put-it-in-the-spank-bank, think-about-it-while-riding-the-subway good. I felt a bit stripper-ish when I first straddled D. We dragged it into his room. Hope his roommate just assumes we were using it to stand on to hang something on the wall. For 30 minutes. Followed by a shower.
It can be boring and predictable to always end up having sex in bed; no matter how many different sex positions you try. As soon as you take sex away from the bed though, suddenly an element of unfamiliarity, anticipation and fantasy boosts the excitement up a notch! Everyone has a chair in the bedroom… and a chair is incidentally the perfect sex prop, because it provides enough support for comfortable sex, making sex practical as well as exciting.