Anal and distal rectal dilation is the act of opening, widening, or stretching the anus with tools called anal dilators. It is often done after surgical procedures on the anus to restore the area to its normal state. Understanding anal anatomy and muscular contractility is a must in sexual education, all in the hopes of long lasting and powerful experiences. As it pertains to anything in anal play, one must think of the sphincter as having two major functions:. Most people have a difficult time with complete relaxation, during both defecation and intercourse. The key component to better bottoming is practice, practice, and more practice!
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The first rule of anal play is lube, lube, and more lube. Rectums do not produce their own lubricant the way vaginas do, so if you're going to be sticking anything up your bum you need to grease it up first. Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to lube. For anal play many folks myself included prefer lubes which are thicker and have more 'staying power. Silicone lubricants can instantly bond to and ruin your beautiful silicone dildos.
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Takeaway: Anal stretching is a key component of higher-level anal play - and it isn't as scary as it sounds. If you're new to anal play , you might be thinking, "what?! Why would I want to stretch my butt?! But anal stretching is actually a key component of higher level anal play - and it isn't nearly as scary as it sounds. Technically, anal stretching is anything that gradually stretches the anus and allows you to insert toys or a penis that you couldn't comfortably take in the past. This means that it could technically apply to absolute beginners who've never tried anal experiences before; working up from a single finger to multiple fingers is a type of "stretching. Anal stretching can go to extremes including insertions of extremely large objects , but the anal stretching kink can also just be the enjoyment of the process of gently and slowly! There are a couple different reasons why people get into anal stretching. Of course, this isn't an exhaustive list, but it gives you a few ideas to familiarize yourself with the kink if you've never met someone who's into it:.
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